The Pattern Has a Name.
And That Means You Can Change It.
This isn’t about blame — it’s about wiring.
Now that you see it, you can begin rewiring for safety, intimacy, and lasting love.
The Fixer Style
When solving replaces feeling.
What’s Happening
When conflict hits, your brain scrambles for solutions. You want to fix it fast, wrap it up, move on.
That instinct isn’t unkind — it’s leadership energy
The Cost
But when it outruns presence, it backfires. To your partner, it feels like dismissal. Like you’re solving them instead of hearing them.
The Truth
Your fixer wiring isn’t wrong — it’s misdirected. And misdirection can be corrected.
The Shift
Once you learn to pause, listen, and anchor before offering solutions, your instinct becomes your superpower. Fixing turns into true leadership — creating the safety where real solutions actually land.
Your Next Step
Watch the Mini-Course
Not ready for a call just yet? Start here. In this short training, I’ll walk you through:
Why “better communication” and more date nights don’t solve the real problem.
The science of the Brain Hijack — and how to disarm it in real time.
The exact framework that has helped hundreds of couples rebuild safety and lasting love.
