The Pattern Has a Name.
And That Means You Can Change It.
This isn’t about blame — it’s about wiring.
Now that you see it, you can begin rewiring for safety, intimacy, and lasting love.
The Escape Style
When leaving feels safer than staying.
What’s Happening
When tension rises, you look for the nearest exit — maybe through work, scrolling, distractions, or numbing.
This isn’t laziness or lack of care. It’s the strategy that once kept the peace.
The Cost
But now, it’s costing you. Every time you “leave the room,” resentment grows. Every escape builds distance.
The Truth
Your escape isn’t failure — it’s survival wiring. And survival wiring can be rewired.
The Shift
Instead of running, you’ll learn to stay engaged — calmly, safely, and clearly. Escape turns into presence. Avoidance transforms into trust. And connection becomes possible again, even in conflict.
Your Next Step
You have 2 powerful options waiting for you:
Watch the Mini-Course
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Why “better communication” and more date nights don’t solve the real problem.
The science of the Brain Hijack — and how to disarm it in real time.
The exact framework that has helped hundreds of couples rebuild safety and lasting love.
